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4 in 5 men (78%) & Almost half of women (44%)
Admit to using pornography 
2024 Barna Porn Phenome Study survey of over 2,000 people

75% of Wives can be diagnosed with PTSD from their spouse's porn use

There are over 400 neurological studies showing pornography to be addictive
NCOSE

97% of Pornography contains violent acts against women, girls. & teens Culture Reframed

1 in 3 Kids say they've seen violent hardcore pornography by Age 12
Culture Reframed

1 in 4 young Adults Listed Pornography as The Most Resourceful Way to Learn How to Have Sex

Over 90% of officers report that self-generated intimate images of minors are common
in their investigations of CSEM

33% Of child abuse is now perpetrated by minors
DOJ 2023

 The popular series for teens Euphoria; came under fire for its explicit and at
times violent depictions of sex.
Representing a new cultural belief: That harmful behavior during sex, even
for teens, is arousing for some and not particularly abnormal. 

Rebecca Nicholson, season two review"

"Girls are now routinely propositioned as though they are porn stars and boys understanding of
intimacy is being developed under the influence of profit driven abusive sexual images" 
Collective Shout

There are over 7 games revolving around rape & incest on the mega platform Steam Collective Shout

Traffickers train minors from pornography before they turn them out

Pedophiles groom their victims with pornography before they begin to film them 

Dr. Amy Zabin, Author of Conversations with a pedophile

There are over 750,000 child predators online at any given time searching to groom or sextort
their next victim
   Millionkids.org/FBI/Child Crimes 

In 2023 There were over 112,000. pedophiles downloading and sharing CSAM within a 30-day period. This was from only (1) of many other servers
Ryan Montgomery, The Shawn Ryan Podcast Episode 56

(This information is only the tip of the iceberg)


AMERICA HAS A HUGE SILENT EPIDEMIC ON IT'S HANDS
THAT IS GRAVELY IN NEED OF HELP













 

About

Education-Awareness-Resources-Counseling

Founder & CEO Tonya Holt has been training groups & organizations about the harms of pornography nationally through zoom since 2022 as part of Opal Singleton -Hendershots Million Kids.org team.

She has been shining a light on the darkness throughout her Bakersfield, Ca community through

Church Without Walls since 2021 and began addressing school boards in 2024 on this issue.

Seek Truth Not Illusions became a 501(c)3 Nonprofit in 2025: EIN #33-4551590

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Her Lived Experience of abuse & exploitation from other people's pornography use drove her to this calling & found Pornography is the root of sex buyers, the commercial sex industry, domestic violence, broken marriages & families, pedophilia, & sexually violent criminals.

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Education:

Masters in Pastoral Counseling

Trained in:

Trauma/Crisis Support

C-PTSD

CBT

DSTT Pornography addiction treatment (The Minwalla Model)

DSTT Pornography trauma treatment for the spouse of (The Minwalla Model)

Certified in Child/Adolescent pornography addiction and prevention of. (Culture Reframed)

Pure Desire Member and trained facilitator 

Team Member Of Million Kids.org

Parent Council Member with Defend Young Minds

Human Trafficking & Sexual Exploitation Trained

Researcher of the harms of pornography for over 9 years

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​Services Are Available @ No Charge

Donations Are Welcome 

Services

SERVICES

ADULTS: Small Groups-Organizations-Churches-Schools-Agencies- Bakersfield Area in Person Edu Cares or Zoom for Any Area
 

1. How Pornography Affects Children/Teens:

How Common/Physical & Mental/Behaviors &Trends

2. Sextortion & Online Enticement:

How Common/Types of Youth Produced CSAM/2 Types of sextortion/

 Impact on Survivors & How to Help Them

3. Hypersexualized Culture & Trends:

Music-Gaming-Dance-Media/TV & Apps

4. How Pornography Fuels:

Prostitution/Sex Trafficking-Domestic Violence-PIRP'S -Broken Relationships-CSAM & Sexual Assaults 

5. Mental Health Workers:

Impact of Sextortion & Online Exploitation

6. Healthcare & Mental Health Professional's:

Tools & Screenings for Children & Teens Addicted to Pornography

7. Breaking down Truths & Illusions of those that Buy Sex

8. Pornography in the Church

9. Pedophilia 

Each Edu-Care is 1 Hour & Include Resources & Referrals

Book A Screening for the Documentary:

Sextortion or Raised on Porn

Q & A, Resources, & Referrals Included 

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TEEN EDU CARE GROUPS AGES 13+

Interactive Group Discussion:

How the Brain Becomes Addicted to Pornography

Key Terms & Definitions

How Pornography Affects Relationships & Perceptions

What is Sextortion

Abusive & Illegal Behaviors/Actions

Definitions & Examples of Key Values

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Resources & Referrals

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CHILDREN AGES 5-7 (Groups)

 

Interactive Storytime

from the Award-Winning Book

Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen Jensen 

Teaching Children to Reject Pornography from An Early Age So They Can Be Better Prepared to Defend Themselves.

Resources & Referrals 

CHILDREN AGES 8-12 (Groups)

Interactive Discussion

from the Award-Winning Book

Good Pictures Bad Pictures by Kristen Jensen 

Teaching Children to Reject Pornography from An Early Age So They Can Be Better Prepared to Defend Themselves.

Resources & Referrals 

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CONTACT

info@seektruthnotillusions.org

Please email for all service inquiries, scheduling, schedule parent consulting, or to schedule any counseling.

If you are local & being exploited or abused and in need of help or just someone to talk to please reach out!

 

Human Trafficking Hotline

1-888-373-7888​

Call 911 if you are in Immediate Danger

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